We feel a responsibility for our loved one. She'll close her eyes and sing a little song, while I retrieve her sleeping pills from the latest hiding place. I still cannot imagine even one day ahead in my life without her. For most of it i could not even cry. My response here wasnt bait. I know the best choice for me is to move on without her. I wanted to cry, but nothing would come out. I just received another message, and its worse than any of the others. Totally devastated. Just keep getting through one day at a time. Police told CNN that the mummified remains . Wishing that it's a joke is no longer comforting. The grief journey is somewhat of a blur as it started in brain fog. Her reply is what prompted me to finally memorialise her page, thinking it might help curb this behaviour. With Ralph Gethings, Brett Kelly, Caitlin Delaney, Jody Haucke. Rob67 Well-Known Member. It's not supposed to be this way My husband was 22 when his body succumbed to the complications of Leukemia. She was a true fighter, a girl who would let nothing stand in the way of her dreams. I feel that today. It is going to be hard but just like me I hope the strength comes to you. I too was there. I find myself trembling, breathing rapidly and am unable to calm down for a while. At this point, some of you may be wondering why I didnt just kill my Facebook profile. I even dreamed of it and planned it all out to a T. That call where I learned of her fate will forever be a nightmare for the rest of my life. For an optimal experience visit our site on another browser. I'm not saying my grief is stronger than his parents or siblings. We had been dating for five years at that point. We're supposed to be together. I had suggested he get a different doctor, perhaps one closer to his work, maybe ask his friends and coworkers who they see, but he didn't. . I just received another message, and it's worse than the others. She had even showed me a website listing symptoms and saying "I have this, and I think this" She didn't ever have the most obvious ones, like loss of function in one side or slurred speech, but she did have many of the minor ones, like headaches, dizzyness, nausea, etc. Five months ago I found out that a girlfriend I had in high school, who I have had no contact with in the 48 years since graduation, died of cancer over 35 years ago at the age of 28. Please try not to be scared. We'd just talk about what happened during the weekend. I read what you guys write, and it's odd that I still feel the same, after all these years. Privacy Policy. I felt overwhelmed and just wanted to be with him. I wrote to her after I got home. I've been through so much crap and the best advice/words of wisdom was found here right on this forum. She had all the will in the world. I spend my days posting on this website I am sure there are others living with non-believers as well.. i had actually had a dream the night before last as well, where she came into work like usual, everyone looked up, stared and cheered. People will eventually start to forget and . Losing someone slowly is just as painful but it's eked out little by little. I will always yearn for that day. For more information, please see our I didn't get out of my room for the first month. hello happened a million times. This site uses cookies We have placed cookies on your device to help make this website better. Be strong my friend, take deep breaths. "Hey. An actor in the film "Twilight" and his girlfriend were found dead last week in a Las Vegas condominium, authorities said Tuesday. We will get there. Talk about how you feel. . Drew Carey and Amie Harwick knew it as . fzaldso sorry for your loss. I've had a few dreams of my husband which woke me up to intense crying spells because we are separated, I was not allowed to stay in those dreams. They are the worst in the morning. My prayers are that God gives you the love and comfort you need to make it through this difficult time. I remember leaving there feeling calm and for a short while there were no tears. A hiker who vanished while trying to find help for his girlfriend on a sweltering Southern California day was found dead Thursday, authorities said. You can adjust your cookie settings, otherwise we'll assume you're okay to continue. Your link has been automatically embedded. She was more comfortable with it when I was boozed up. My girlfriend and I started dating in late 2011, she was still under 18 but we agreed to not get intimate until after she was of age. I'm hitting rock bottom. But I also know I'll probably fall right back down the hole, especially in the morning and at the funeral itself tomorrow. I am also afraid my own coping strategies are going to fail, because even the idea of grieving for a year scares the hell out of me, because it's basically a long-term plan - one thing I wasn't good at doing when my girlfriend was still here. Her last few messages had started to scare me, but I wouldnt admit it at this point. I didn't shower, didn't eat much except for fluids, didn't saw the sky, didn't talk to anyone except on this site, just sat on my bed all day and wondered what the hell happened. My husband has been gone for not quite 6 months. On the way home, a strange sense of calm was washing over me. yo ask Nathan was an in-joke too lame worth explaining, but seeing her say it again just absolutely fucking crippled me. Jansen Panettiere's family is speaking out one week after his death at age 28. . We're supposed to talk about our projects. Gavin Rush, who had been out on a $40,000 bond after. The first few days are the worst. That's when you realize it's not a joke, that there's no way for things to reverse themselves. This alone scares me, because I am feeling like I will be in this horrible turmoil for the next year or more, and I don't know how I'll be able to make it through. It's a comfort to think that maybe, just maybe, my vivid dreams are not just random thoughts or yearning from my own mind, but rather are actual signs and messages from her on the other side. I don't cry as much as I used to, the panic attacks don't come so often. Like all our conversations so far, its recycled from previous messages shes sent. The intensity we have in the beginning lessens, thank God or we couldn't handle it. It will get better for you too. It's just been four days so just allow yourself to feel whatever comes. I used to be so certain of everything. Normally, around this time on a Sunday evening, I'd be calling her or texting her to ask about work tomorrow. Im not expecting my bond back. It's been horrible. I share access with her mother (Susan) - meaning, her mother has her login and password and has spent a total of approximately three minutes on the website (or on a computer, total). In all those decades I focused on the family . Takes courage to do that, and somehow we manage. Just like if I think of her, I don't feel sad, I don't feel lonely, but I also don't feel happy. I try not to think too much about the future. It's an exercise that the more you practice, the better you get at it, and I won't say it's always easy. [Chorus 2] I don't want to talk about her But someone always asks about her So I tell them all she's dead [Verse 1] I once had a girlfriend But then one day she dumped me And everywhere I'd go . I just want it to get easier now. Display as a link instead, He passed away 10/20/16. I can barely function on my job as it stands, and I know it's still very fresh and it's only been four days since her passing, but I'm scared of what I will become in this condition. We were inseparable in many ways. It can be either a few seconds or a minute or more. With my girlfriend, there was nothing. His physical body died, but he didn't. Thirty-three years of. But that left him dead. 226K views, 329 likes, 168 loves, 7 comments, 11 shares, Facebook Watch Videos from My Story Animated MSA: I know thats tangential, but I dont feel right discussing her without you having an idea of what she was like. "When someone we were once close to dies, so . My girlfriend died by suicide! After six years I finally forgave my husband for cheating on me while he was alive. Tonights kind of a catalyst for this post. She doesnt even realise Im there. Confusion, fear, guilt, and anger are just a few of the emotions you may feel. FRE EZIN G is the first original word shes (?) But then, it gets better. She was usually home from work by 4.30. This is evident now, as her family has been quite distant from me in this time. Waking up from that dream hurt so so so bad My friend thinks this dream is her way of telling me she is ok and she's still with me in a way. A witness claimed to have seen her. Foreground Noises. fzald, You have nothing to feel guilty for. Reddit and its partners use cookies and similar technologies to provide you with a better experience. If you dont pay me out, youre doing me a disservice. I wish you didn't have to feel this. Finally I found my cute girlfriend prank on girl's Reaction Hello guy's am Barun please do support me that's my new channel so I need your support and l. These are logs from the day she died. You maybe uncertain you will survive this overwhelming loss or even have the energy or desire to tryto heal. I've learned to embrace those moments, we need them just to see the glimmer of hope. It's so early in the journey of grief and I'm already overwhelmed and not sure how to really cope. 8. We met 10/20 of 2012 and he passed 10/20 of 2016. She would think that for some odd reason everyone is playing a prank on her, and she would not find it funny. Just having to know that I will never ever see her again in this life, that the things we shared together will never be shared again fzald, Everything you are feeling, we also feel. I still have cassettees I listen to, some are more than 20 years old. She quit worrying about her symptoms, so you did too. It's hard beyond belief. Something will not go according to your plan. It's almost four months now and I'm still here. Discussion in 'Grief in Common Updates, Questions & Answers' started by Rob67, May 15, 2020. I still expect to see a message from her. And then when I have to come back to reality, I can't handle it. Before the funeral, even if we know better, we have this false hope that, maybe somehow, this whole thing is a joke. We talked a lot about her, and I did feel sad and cried a little, but I made it. Maybe there was a big mistake. 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