KrisNick09 (author) from Kentucky on February 22, 2013: The only advice I can offer is to remind you that a relationship is a two way street. Avoiding eye contact. i read here the Scorpio guy said "Also of pushing someone away as fear rejection so will self sabotage in order to control outcome, which sadly always ends in pain." He Keeps Secrets From You Scorpios are secretive. Common personality traits and how they manifest in romance, Top reasons why he's off the grid and ignoring your texts, Explanations for his off-and-on behavior and sudden blow-ups, Important tips for cultivating a healthy relationship. I am NOT going to contact him. It really does sux when you get stung for something so stupid and especially when you've done nothing wrong apart from be asleep.it's extremely hurtful. how dos one know if he is really interested in you.. he barely talks, I am from United Kingdom England, I just want to share my experience with the world on how Dr Mack, help me, and got my love back and saved my marriage I was married for 3 years with a child and we lived happily until things started getting ugly and we had fights and argued almost every time it got worse at a point that he filed for divorce I tried my best to make him change his mind & stay with me because I love him so much and dont want to lose him but everything just didn't work out he moved out of the house because it was a rented apartment and still went ahead to file for divorce I pleaded and tried everything but still nothing worked. Bottom line is, I am losing my mind and I need help. Instead of. Too much of us isn't good. I felt really shitty after reading his long descriptive text. (sometimes, not always, but sometimes, it's a flat our lie, esp. I don't want to tell him because he may think I'm just trying to get him back it really hurts feeling this way all alone. Go figure. He needs his Space, alone Time ,escape into his Music after having Stress Times. Well for about a year he has changed. Posted on February 2, the video has amassed 80,000 views. I think Scorpios are very complex people. If I ask him to be with me he says let's end this as I m too demanding and impatient . I would wait for him although as a Cancer I am really not good at waiting on people. Scorpio is the most emotionally vulnerable sign, yet when they put up their defences, no one can damage them. How do I navigate this relationship, because I do care deeply for him. Or he "ghosts" and just disappears. Give each other space. I really love him and I want to try again where I dont hurt him anymore. On the same note, don't let Scorpio's bad reputation lead you to misjudge someone. They hone in on a project and become very obsessed. Also, because he clams up, he'll never feel enough guilt to tell you that he's cheating on you. Scorpio friend who ended up kissing me one night, has been gone for 2 weeks. 2. If anyone is going through this; stop, drop and roll. We have had a serious connection and am amazing attraction together. When they feel threatened or fear they will be gravely injured, they often retreat. I went crazy over him, and he seemed to go crazy over me too, and even wanted to make plans for the next meetup before even leaving each other. These men are secretive, alluring, mysterious, stubborn, and very intelligent. Or he will suddenly have an "issue" where life seems overwhelming. I also think it's easy to fall for them - at least in my case!!! P.S. There is very little I expect and very little that fazes me but the moment I get the whiff of disloyalty I will stake out my game and take him down he will never come up. When that doesn't get the point across or make him feel vindicated, he'll become passive-aggressive. i know i;m not his priority. Without going into why he withdraws in the first place (more about that later), this is the best explanation I can give you for the stalker-to-stranger extremes. When your Scorpio man displays his disappearing acts, it may be due to many factors - there's a possibility you upset him, but he can get stressed because of other external things. Sagittarius (November 22-December 21) Sagittarians are the Zodiac's wanderers. hopefully this is helpful :) I'm thinking about writing one on the ego of scorpio males ;) ( and females!). Any advice from other Scorpio men out there would be greatly appreciated. Scorpio Signs yes he has the most of them. This gives Scorpio natives an innate push to seek personal growth on a soul level. There is no getting over him and I know it. Scorpio man lives in his own way and does not care about others. Then I said I understand , you already made up your mind. I'm so lost please help. This might be caused by problems early on in their lives that have made them insecure about being committed to someone who might not reciprocate. 5 Key Takeaways 1. I'm not going to blow his phone up and beg for him to talk to me if that's what he thinks. We were great in the beginning and then slowly, he started to withdraw from me. But whenever were together, I feel he loves me somehow. How much i showed my love to him , he got more silence . Im naturally submissive but im tired of questioning his feelings. 1. I rather move on and look for someone else right away, but he's totally worth it. Tell him how you feel. KrisNick09 (author) from Kentucky on July 17, 2012: I have been hub browsing and it seems that a lot of people are having trouble with their scorpios. They are not brave or fearless in some areas such as walking away from someone who adores them. They are direct and purposeful, independent and overall pretty happy. He doesn't care about what you think. He just needs more time , to make a palace for future . He lives a couple hours away from me and we talk enough but there are days when he doesn't. Especially when i had fight wih my partner. Please help me and tell me he will come back to me. But now I haven't heard from him for a week and a half and have no idea why. I refuse to take tesponsibikitu for HIS emotionaly irresponsibility. Being with my Scorpio is like riding a roller coaster.everything feels picture perfect up until. My Mom was diagnosed with Cancer December 4, 2013. He wants all your thoughts to be about him, even if he wont admit to it or consider you 'sticky'he derives deep pleasure form the mere idea that he may be dominating all of your thoughts. Ignore him, he will retalia There is no one to compare with the Scorpio man. Also do you think he will come back? I am the kind of Libra female who craves attention and if I don't hear from my Scorpio for ONE day - I begin to freak out and go back and forth - he loves me, he loves me not. Both of which he said no to. Very strange behavior from a man in his 40's. My point is, you may think it came out of nowhere, but he has been keeping track, and something tipped the scales. Their understanding of others is deep and incisive. They have to prove to me and show me that they are who they say they are. but he did not even read my message for 2 weeks. Scorpio Detests Lying If you lie to your Scorpio lover, he will know it. Their fixed, feminine energy can come off as stubborn and reserved, but don't mistake their often quiet and secretive demeanor for passivity! What do I do with this friendship???!:((. At the very least, he will reassure you that you are not the problem. Even i cant meet any boy (friend) without his permission. When they get into something, they really go for it. He explained he didnt want to do that until we were "OPEN" in front of his daughter about our seriousness. They are a little different . Now imagine you're a small child that has just discovered the dog's tail and begins to playfully tug on it. do I just go along with however he's feeling? Someone who is with me can never see it coming. BUT i get irritated by his over caring and controlling nature. But we can add that if that is who you want, there is no one else that will do. He said "I am going to cause you stress, you will cause me stress" if we cant do that then we cant do this. The Bug came by the Bar saw me sitting there smiling at him. They may tell occasional white lies, but they can never truly pretend or fake, which means they often come off as overly blunt. I just don't have time to waste. Have I lost him for good? Is this a characteristic or is he playing games with me :(. We r used to flirting a lot, admit we like eachother but he has a girlfriend -- one that treats him awful and he knows it. He tells me im the one but when he starts getting tired he gives me confidence and reassurence with words that don't feel like a lie. They Detest Dishonesty Your Scorpion partner vehemently detests lies. DONT CHASE HIM. Does he seem intensely interested in you and your plansalmost coming off as a bit of a stalkerbut only to go off the grid completely before once again coming onto you as strongly as before? He is a Scorpio, sweet, caring, thoughtful, listening well, good Manners, a real Love Bug. She may stare across the room or look away when your eyes meet on your first date. Rated all ups!! i have fallen deeply in love with this man who has now, after 3 and a half months (yes I know it is a short time) not introduced me to anyone, never invited me over to his house, starting being busy over weekends with family issues only pops over 1 night in the week for the last 3 weeks. What should I be doing when he is acting cold? Do not Act Desperate and Clingy. If he completely stops communicating, he may have decided to cut all strings and end it. Never put them under pressure , they are so sensetive . If a Scorpio man suddenly disappears with no explanation, he could just not be interested in you. Karthik Kashyap from India on July 17, 2012: KrisNick09: I think I may be in situation 3. We are not together, 50/50 shared responsibility for break up. What should I do? He also had an additive personality. I love his jealous & possessiveness alot . I was going to ask him if I did something wrong, but I held back in order to not look desperate. He seemed to get a lot closer to me the following days and was texting me a lot, but then he went distant again. He waited till Wednesday and texted 'Hey' I didn't text back I knew something was wrong and I was upset aswell. This approach may work for some signs, but on a Gemini man, it will have the opposite of the desired effect. During Mom's chemo and ups and downs, he was there for me any time of the day (he lives in Ireland and is 6 hours ahead) and I could call him at any time and he was there. If they keep asking, I either lash out because I want them to go away without explaining that I am upset or I pretend that I just don't feel well. & i saw him posts in other social app . i am with a scorpio boy , it's 13 months that we are with each other , yes i agree with all , he is so different with all , at first he flirted alot , after few month i fell in love with him & i told him & during the time this feel got more & more . He did ask me many Time to come see him at the Gigs but i never went until last June. This way, it's a little easier to tell if the Scorpio is interested or not. We are holding back because we want to take in your love and see if ur the right person for us I think but really being a Scorpio is tough. He will not talk about it and shuts right down. It just means his mind is occupied. He may become moody or withdrawn, which can be difficult to deal with for those who are close to him. Ummmm we are 50 and 42. Saw him playing maybe 3 Times in that Years. He is working independently, so he is working lots, busy with his Music Needs and is living one Hour away from me, living with somebody together. He basically begged for a second chance. Let a Scorpio man know what he has done or said to upset you. I can't have him and no one else will ever interest me again. I had my Life he had his own, all good. I just had the longest three days of my life. I want to add he is younger than me in 6 years, he is 29. He doesn't reach out and he doesn't reply when you contact him. Help he is turturing me with mind and body. 1. A Scorpio man in love will want to share his thoughts and feelings with you, and he will be more willing to talk about the relationship. Even i get scared of me. Anyway, we just been talking and starring at each other off and on. We were totally fine for a month, then he was at his friend's place and he was supposed to come to stay with me before going home but he got sick and he only texted me when he was already on the way home without even telling me he's thinking of not coming. Trust issue or what i dont know. Blame is unhealthy in any relationship. Please help! Im 17 and the scorpio ive been talking to is 17 also. 2023 The Arena Media Brands, LLC and respective content providers on this website. but still i'm trying to go with flow with him. You have to understand that Scorpios are intense. I need Dr. Lastly, no one can love a person who doesnt truly love themselves , and if you truly love yourself you will know how and on whom to spend your precious hours, reserve your emotions to your girlfriends , get to know a boy for who he really is before pouring your feelings out to him and feeling vulnerable. He doesn't seem like the type that could be motivated by the lover's thoughts and feelings. If not more. My friends think I should get an abortion to save myself the heart ache but I could never do that! I told him no and he was surprised. I must say sometimes we women tolerate too much nonsense. I have introduced him to a lot of couples with problems across the world and they have had good news Just thought I should share my experience because I strongly believe someone out there needs it You can email him through his email..dr_mack@ yahoo. Piscean men don't like to end relationships and will simply disappear, whether completely or in part. I can see he has read my message as well. I know he read some of my emails because one of the emails I was asking him to send me my stuff from his place and I got a message from FedEx that he sent my stuff. I am a Cancer girl but a very strong personality as well. Two weeks after the kiss, we continued to talk. his actions do not depend on just the fact that he is a Scorpio). I hope this advice helps. he ask my fav music, random question like kiss ot hug? I asked my scorpio guy if what he's feeling towards me and he said he doesn't know. i met this scorpio guy age 32 online. Understanding him 2. Im totally confused coz he's giving me mixed signals. But if we want to be alone don't feel bad we just need our space. Like I said its better to move on now because he has. Again, as a Capricorn I am secretive and I didnt want it to be something all of our acquaintances knew about. It's a shady, passive aggressive way of breaking up with. Due to Scorpio personality traits, he is introspective and independent. The more clingy and desperate you act, the more likely you are to pull yourself . What's holding you back guys? Scorpios are driven to action by their ruling planets, Mars and Pluto. Yes, a scorpio man is a one task at a time individual, so say that they have alot of things to accomplish in such a short period of time or they feel overwhelmed they tend to withdrawal a bit and it really takes a women whom is strong and can handle finding things to do on your own. Im a Capricorn so Im very hurt on the inside but Ill never show it outwardly. As you may already know, guys born under any of the water signs tend to be more emotional than men born under any other sign! Content is for informational or entertainment purposes only and does not substitute for personal counsel or professional advice in business, financial, legal, or technical matters. This is so helpful! He came way strong and even texted to me that he could see being married to me. He may have been looking for a specific chemistry and didn't find it. The drop off in feelings are generally never as sudden as you think, unless there's a serious betrayal. If he is distant keep it moving and show him that you wont lose any sleep. com. HubPages is a registered trademark of The Arena Platform, Inc. Other product and company names shown may be trademarks of their respective owners. Take The Quiz: Is He Losing Interest? So we've been checking our snapchat stories which he only posted two and so did I. I feel like my situation is probably number 5 but sometimes I get a feeling he will try to contact me one day idk. What do you guys think??? Water signs are emotional, and Scorpios are most sensitive of all. Speaking for myself, it's more of an arcing effect. I really think it's the arrogance and a Scorpio. Should i stay or should i go. I too, fall for themwell, it's really more like tripping down the stairs :). Make him WORK for you, if he wont then keep it moving as he will if it were you. He replied with the 'take care line' and that's it. He's confused. 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